“My
brethren, count it all joy when you fall into various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience. But let patience have its perfect work, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking
nothing.” – James 1:2-4
There are days…and then there are THOSE days! Those days when you are burdened with the
pains of life beyond all you can bear. In
those darkest days we often hear the words, “God
won’t put more on you than you can bear”, and we feel like failures, like
we should not be overwhelmed. But this
is life, and this is NOT Heaven. Yes,
God does put more burdens on us than we can bear…alone, that is.
1 Corinthians 10:13 is often misquoted and confuses the
point that we are to bear our cross daily.
It says “No
temptation has overtaken you except such as is common to man; but God is faithful, who will not allow you
to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation will also make
the way of escape, that you may be able to bear it.” But this verse talks about
temptations to sin, not burdens of life.
God will put more on you than you can bear in life.
Do you believe that God is all powerful? Do you believe that He has the power to right
all wrongs, to put a hedge about His children to not let harm come their way,
to provide for our needs, to keeps us from all physical and emotional
harm? Most will says they do believe
that. But somehow when trouble comes our
way we want to take God out of the picture as if these things were not in His
plans for us, as if He has fallen asleep at the helm of our life. In all situations in our life, good and bad,
God has either gives or allows those heavy burdens to come our way.
Job is a case where God gave the burdens. Pain is not always the product of punishment
in the Christian life. Job was a man
that God called “a blameless
and upright man”, yet it was God that
brought Job to Satan’s mind when he came before Him. Satan didn’t have Job in mind as his next
great adventure. God asked him, “Have you considered my servant Job?” God wasn’t angry at Job. There was nothing for Him to be angry
about. Job was blameless, and upright in
all his ways. But God picked Job out anyway.
And again, after Satan had taken all of Job’s
oxen, donkeys, camels, servants, and killed his seven daughters and three sons,
God says to Satan in Job 2:3, “Have you
considered My servant Job, that there
is none like him on the earth, a blameless and upright man, one who
fears God and shuns evil? And still he holds fast to his integrity, although
you incited Me against him, to destroy him without cause.” God lets Satan lose on Job’s life again,
allowing him to make him sick even unto death, but not allowing him to take Job’s
life.
David is a case of where the burdens were a
product of sin and punishment. David had
lusted for Bathsheba, committed adultery with her, got her pregnant, killed her
husband to hide his sins, and took her as his wife (2 Samuel 11)! But sin always has consequences. God sent the prophet Nathan to David to warn
him that the son Bathsheba bore would die.
David pleaded with God, dressed in mourning clothes, crying out, praying
and fasting. But God would not rescind
the punishment. In 2 Samuel 12, we read:
“And
the Lord struck the child that Uriah’s wife bore to
David, and it became ill. David therefore pleaded with
God for the child, and David fasted and went in and lay all night on the
ground. So the elders of his house arose and went to him, to raise him up from
the ground. But he would not, nor did he eat food with them. Then on the seventh day it came to pass that the
child died. And the servants of David were afraid to tell him that the child
was dead. For they said, “Indeed, while the child was alive, we spoke to him,
and he would not heed our voice. How can we tell him that the child is dead? He
may do some harm!”
David endured every parent’s nightmare –
the loss of a child. It was a slow loss,
seeing the child suffer for seven days.
David endured it as punishment for his own sins, and watched as they
killed his son. Was it a burden too big
to bear? Certainly so! His own servants were afraid to tell him that
the child was dead, fearing that he would commit suicide.
Jesus Christ himself was given a huge burden
to bear. In Matthew
26:38-39, when He went to the Garden of Gethsemane to
pray, He told His disciples “My soul is exceedingly sorrowful, even to death.” As He prayed He told God the Father, “O My Father, if it is possible, let this
cup pass from Me; nevertheless, not as I will, but as You will.” He was burdened beyond anything we can compare it to. He knew what death on the cross would be
like, and asked God to find another way.
But, we see what our response should be to these burdens when He
completes His prayer saying “nevertheless, not as I will, but as You will.”
If there is any love in God at all, we can
know that God loves His children. He
loves Jesus His own Son, Job, David, and even you and I. And He loves us equally, because “there is no partiality with God” (Romans
2:11). But what He needs from us is our
love in return, and our obedience. He
desires a relationship built on trust, faith, and intimate fellowship.
Have you ever seen a wild horse? They are beautiful creatures! They run through the hills, manes and tails
flying with the wind, and enjoying full freedom to do as they please and go
where they please. But it’s not all good
to be a wild horse. There are fights
among the herd and the wounds they cause can end in death. There’s hunger, thirst, and sickness. There are attacks from wild animals.
As beautiful as a wild horse is, it cannot
be used for anything. For a horse to be
useful, it has to be tamed. It has to
undergo careful training, and yes, sometimes pain from the trainer. But in the end, the horse becomes a companion
to the trainer, and a friendship develops through the burdens and pain. The horse learns that the blessings that come
from the trainer, the continual care, feeding, protection, love and fellowship,
outweigh the pain. So are our lives at
the hands of our loving Father. The pain
and burdens come, but they have rewards.
James 1:2-4 says “My
brethren, count it all joy when you fall into various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience. But let patience have its perfect work, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking
nothing.” If we had everything we
needed for this life to being with, if we could be “perfect and complete”, we would not need to endure the trials of
life. But to reach the stage of “lacking nothing” we have to gain what
we ourselves do not already have. What
we do not have within ourselves is found in our relationship with God.
Yes, there are burdens given to you in this
life that are greater than you can bear on your own. But, they are given at the hand of a merciful
and loving God to gain your dependence on Him – not to tear you down. They test your faith, produce patience for
life’s sorrows, build your character and testimony, and complete God’s work in you. He becomes your strength and your help. No, we can’t do life alone – and we were
never meant to be self-sufficient! But
with God by our side, all things are possible.