“But
King Solomon loved many foreign women, as well as the daughter of Pharaoh:
women of the Moabites, Ammonites, Edomites, Sidonians, and Hittites— from the
nations of whom the Lord had said to the children of
Israel, “You shall not intermarry with them, nor they with you. Surely they
will turn away your hearts after their gods.” Solomon clung to these in love. And he had seven hundred wives, princesses, and three hundred
concubines; and his wives turned away his heart. For it was so, when Solomon was old, that his wives
turned his heart after other gods; and his heart was not loyal to the Lord his God, as was the
heart of his father David. For
Solomon went after Ashtoreth the goddess of the Sidonians, and after Milcom the
abomination of the Ammonites. Solomon
did evil in the sight of the Lord, and did
not fully follow the Lord, as did his father David. Then Solomon
built a high place for Chemosh the abomination of Moab, on the hill that is east of Jerusalem, and for Molech
the abomination of the people of Ammon. And he did
likewise for all his foreign wives, who burned incense and sacrificed to their
gods. So the Lord became angry with Solomon, because his heart had turned from the Lord God of Israel, who had appeared to him twice,” – 1 Kings
11:1-9
We often hear at marriages that “two become one”, and don’t fully understand the meaning. When you marry, your spirit is intertwined with your spouses. You share life together in such a way that you become like each other, finishing each other’s sentences, often dressing alike, and even saying the same things.
God’s warning to Solomon came from His knowledge of what marrying those that are not Christians would do to his relationship with God. If you marry someone who has no relationship with Christ, their lack of faith and desire to serve Him will affect your relationship with God. You will be torn to love God, and love your spouse with their own selfish desires.
While Solomon’s wives went after false
gods, today’s non-Christians will go after false gods of a different type. Today’s non-Christian may go after wealth,
popularity, power, and the Amerian dream.
They may let their children become their idols, or their own physical
appearance. Regardless of what it is
that they bring into your life as a non-Christian, it will diminish your relationship
with God if you aren’t strong enough to bear it. And the truth is, if you are strong enough to
bear it, these things will prevent you from being attracted to that spouse, if
not before you marry, then sadly during the marriage.
When picking a mate, look beyond the hair, eyes, and skin. Look beyond their acts of love toward you. A strong marriage begins with strength of faith. God commands us to look for those that are of the same faith, so that we can be “equally yoked”. Not only do you not yoke an ox with a mule, but you don’t yoke an ox with a calf either. If their faith is not strong enough to be the head of the house, ladies, you may end up walking off path with them. If their faith is not as important to them as yours is to you, young men, you may end up feeling like your faith is a conflict because you cannot share it with her. Choose wisely, because “two become one” in flesh, and in spirit.
“Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness? And what communion has light with darkness? And what accord has Christ with Belial? Or what part has a believer with an unbeliever? And what agreement has the temple of God with idols? For you are the temple of the living God. As God has said: “I will dwell in them and walk among them. I will be their God, and they shall be My people.” Therefore “Come out from among them and be separate, says the Lord. Do not touch what is unclean, and I will receive you. I will be a Father to you, and you shall be My sons and daughters, says the Lord Almighty.” – 2 Corinthians 6:14-18
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